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Caring too much about other people's opinions is like being locked in a cage

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I’ve noticed that worrying about others' opinions often falls into two categories. One is when you actually hear someone’s comment about you, and it leaves you feeling uncomfortable. The other is when no one has said anything at all, but you’re already imagining what others might think of you, convincing yourself that they must be judging you in some way. If you find yourself in both situations, it’s as if you’re locking yourself in a two-layer prison: one layer is made up of others’ real comments, and the other is the belief that they’re silently criticizing you. The emotional toll can be overwhelming. 😖 But remember, these two layers are actually constructs of your own mind, ones you’ve built and chosen to stay in. You don’t have to let it be so painful. How others view you is their business—it’s not something you need to internalize or use to punish yourself. 我發現在意別人的看法這個問題有兩種情況，一種是聽到別人對自己下評論後，產生了不舒服的感覺；另外一種則是明明沒有任何人評論自己，卻先在內心覺得別人一定會覺得我怎樣怎樣……。⠀ ⠀ 如果你是這兩種情況都會有，就好像把自己關在兩層牢籠裡，一層是別人真實的評論，一層是自己認為別人會那樣看自己，痛苦到不行😖⠀ ⠀ 但這兩層其實都是自己創造出來然後主動關進去的，你可以選擇不要那麼痛苦。別人怎麼看是他的事，跟你沒關係，不用這樣懲罰自己~⠀

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